Why is my b-day cursed?

This has been going on for more years than I can count. Every time something is planed for my b-day it goes completely wrong. From parents fighting and separating for the day. The evil MN deer hunting season making people too busy. Myself almost being hit by a car driven by a relative. Just a few examples. I am so trying to be happy and do good things when we plan to celebrate. It is not going well..... So far the father-in-law got hit by a car while riding his bike. People are unable to attend anything due to hunting. The weather is turning. I can't take off any time off on friday thanks to my home inspection for work. Just was informed today I can not even start at my normal time due to system upgrades at work on the actual b-day. What the hell! I just want to be able to celebrate and have a peaceful time for once around my b-day. Is that so wrong to ask?